Are you Melania Trump Or a Michelle Obama : Christian Marital Counselling Crisis 2

Christian Marital Counselling Crisis

Christian marriage counselling is really under attack . Recently I was sharing some experiences with an older friend of mine and he said "....Dan that is why I dont love my wife with all my heart , else if she starts messing up like this , it will affect my ministry". He continued by saying "... I used to love ladies fully and they would let me down , it affected my ministry so much that I decided not love my wife fully . And it has helped !" He said this to me laughing. 

For days I meditated on it and it appeared to make sense until the Lord spoke to me and said DONT LET THE EXPERIENCE OF OTHERS BE YOUR TEACHER , ALLOW MY WORD AND SPIRIT TO TEACH YOU. THE HOLY WORD OF GOD SAYS LOVE YOUR WIFE SO THAT IS WHAT YOU MUST DO.

I could imagine the countless number of people who have been deceived or misled by people`s so called counselling or advice. 

YOU MUST BE WANDERING , SO WHERE DOES MRS OBAMA AND MRS TRUMP COME IN ?  Well we are getting there soon . Man hood is a process , nobody is born a man or becomes a man overnight. To be born male happens instantly  but to become a man required a slow and complex process of rise and fall , failures and disappointments and several attempts at doing the same thing over and over again till you get it right.

Some by virtue of their background , luck, opportunities, temperament  etc turn to move faster through the process that others , or even start far ahead in the process. But the fact still remains that becoming a man is a process.  

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