Is he educated ?
Can He take care of you ?
Does he have a job ?
How much does he make ?
What kind of accommodation can He offer you ?
Is he self sufficient ?
Can he provide you with a comfortable life ?
And so on and so forth......
Recently I conducted a simple survey on the kind of questions that some ladies who sought counselling on the guy they wanted to marry were asked by their counselor and I was amazed that these were the questions they were asked.
I was hoping to hear things like ....
Is he trustworthy ?
How is His attitude towards other women like ?
What are His views on marriage ?
Apart from just being a wife what are his plans for your future ?
Is he someone you think can help you develop both physically and Spiritually as
a person ?
What are some of His strengths and weakness or may be a SWOT analysis ?
Have you prayed about Him and what is the Holy Spirit leading you to do...?
What is His spiritual life like , is he a giver , a tither , fasting and prayer etc ?
And so on and so forth , these were the kind of questions I was expecting A CHRISTIAN counselling session to pose. But it appears that all over the world especially in Ghana , the church is placing CHRISTIAN VALUES aside and focusing on experience and human knowledge. The word of God is no longer our teacher it is the experience and knowledge of others that matters.
Recently I was amazed when I discovered that the author of a popular dating blog was just a 24 year old boy ! Can you imagine a 24 year old single male giving dating advice to millions of young people all over the world , most of them even older than He is. Can you imagine a novice leading other novices !
Are you Melania Please Continue "Trump Or a Michelle Obama : Christian Marital Counselling Crisis 2"
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