Are you Melania Trump Or a Michelle Obama : Christian Marital Counselling Crisis 3

Now to Mrs Obama and Mrs Trump ...lol !

I have never really been a keen follower of first ladies , but when I saw the picture of Mrs Obama and Mrs Trump chatting in the white house I began to ponder over how these two ladies had gotten to where they are today.

This is how they began life

Miss Trump is a beauty queen , a super model who married a billionaire who is now president . She really is every woman`s dream , every woman would like to have the kind of life she has had. Have a wonderful career as a model , Sales woman , doctor , engineer etc and then marry a billionaire who lives in a pent house who then later becomes President of the United State. It sounds like a Cinderella story right ? but it is true. That is the story of Melania Trump and it would have been okay for every lady to have a Melania Trump expectation if ALL THE MEN IN THE WORLD WERE LIKE DONALD TRUMP !

Unfortunately not ALL MEN START LIFE WITH A $ 200, 000,000 fund inherited from their father like Donald Trump. 

Some like Barack Obama start life with nothing. They have to take the hard , slow and difficult part of the process to becoming a man. Infact most ladies stand a 1 out of 10 chances of marrying a Donald Trump. BUT IT DOESNT MEAN YOU CANT GET TOP THE TOP and RUB SHOULDERS WITH THE MELANIA TRUMPS OF SOCIETY .

This is how they began life

THE Michelle Obamas are the women who JUST BELIEF. They believe and are willing to go through the process with their men. I have seen pictures of Michelle and Barack in a VW Beetle  and pictures of them stepping out of a custom made $ 1.5 Million Dollar Cadillac. I have seen pictures of them in a thatched house in Kenya and pictures of them in the White House. They take a man despite his weakness and help push them to use their strengths. As a pastor I have heard young women who complain bitterly about their husbands just because things have not yet settled smoothly as they were expecting.

I know a lady who grumbles so much about her husband every Sunday . She has made her young husband`s marital challenges a life lesson to others. She keeps referencing to Her husbands" failures" as though he was a complete looser. Everyone in church knows of their issues because this woman is just not patient to HELP HER MAN MATURE THROUGH THE PROCESS.

And these are a result of the wrong approach to pre marital and post marital counselling . Christian values like faith , diligence , sacrifice , delayed gratification , self denial , submission , love , hope  etc have lost their place in counselling. EVERYTHING IS MATERIALISTIC , INSTANT AND SELF CENTERED THESE days.  

I really pray for the fate of marriages in our generation and the generations after. 

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